In LGBTQ culture, the concept of "chosen family" is sacred. For trans individuals, who are frequently disowned by biological relatives, this is a survival mechanism. The ballroom culture immortalized in the documentary Paris is Burning —and later the TV show Pose —showcases "Houses" (like the House of LaBeija or House of Xtravaganza). These houses are surrogate families led by "mothers" (often trans women) who teach young queer and trans kids how to walk, vogue, and survive.

How can the broader LGBTQ community and allies support the transgender community without stealing the mic?