Like Matures !!install!!

To let like mature, you have to kill the idea of the "soulmate."

Mature like is also painfully aware of limits. It knows that some people are for a season, not a lifetime. It doesn't view the end of a friendship as a failure, but as a natural tide. It knows how to say, "I like you, but I cannot save you," and how to walk away without arson.

You look across the table at a person who has seen you vomit, fail, cry, and snore. And you don’t feel disgust. You feel a quiet, almost boring, volcanic loyalty.

Let’s break down the anatomy of this transition.